"I love you" are three words that every heart desires to hear. There's no greater feeling than being able to share love and compassion with another individual. Every single person has the inner fire buring within them for the desire of knowing that they are truly cared about.
High school relationships are entirely different from others. From time to time you see a few couples who actually make it out of high school and end up together forever. But, high school is usually the time for experimenting. Relationships last a couple months and are over within a blink of an eye.
One of my biggest pet peeves about relationships is when a couple has been dating for just a few weeks and are already claiming that they are in love with each other. First off, saying "I love you" is a big deal! People just don't take it seriously. Guys and girls are both guilty of simply throwing out the phrase without taking into consideration what they are really saying. If you truly do love that person, then by all means pour your heart out until you can't pour any more. But if you are just saying it to be saying it or because you feel that it will make the other person feel better, then don't.
Hearing those three words can either make or break a person. No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes it's better to simply be honest about your feelings rather than leading others on.
THIS IS THE MOST AMAZING THING I'VE EVER READ. Praise you. We need to have all high school students around the world read this. The most irritating thing to me is seeing girls get hurt when their boyfriend of two weeks three days and seventeen hours breaks up with them and they were oh so "in love." We all need to hold those three words a little more highly and not let them be said to whoever.
ReplyDeleteHaha pretty sure I rant about this all the time. It blows my mind that couples are picking out curtains for their apartment after they've been together for like 8 months. Maybe you are very fond of them, or the little that you know about them, after that time, but love is a strong word. Being in love is a lot stronger. I love ice cream, but it takes a lot more than high schoolers think to actually be in love with someone. We are so naive :)
ReplyDeletepeople always throw "I love you" and being "in love" around, especially in high school. Half the time when younger couples do it, that haven't been together for very long, I think that it's because they want so badly to be 'in love' that they almost make themselves believe that's what being in love is, when really they have yet to meet many people and have so many more experiences. I'm not saying they all high schoolers do that because sometimes high school relationships work out for the best and i'm happy for those couples who do but 9 times out of 10 it's going to end and it can be very heartbreaking for that person.
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