Relationships can be a true blessing if people actually took the time to appreciate them. No matter how good or how bad they are, they're all a learning experience. In all reality, if you never go through any sort of bad relationship, you'll never realize what you truly deserve. It's those relationships that leave us heartbroken for months and bring tears to our eyes that truly make us stronger. Often times when we have a great relationship with someone, we focus entirely too much on the negative and think, "It could be a lot better." or "Why can't he/she do stuff for me like that?". Its those thoughts that cause us to lose sight of what we have standing right in front of our faces.
It seems as though more and more people are unhappy with their relationships today. People, mostly females, have set expectations that are entirely too high and they are never reached. Ladies, the fact of the matter is that you're boyfriend may not show up on your door step with flowers every week. Instead of wishful thinking about how you wish your relationship was, sit down and think about how great your relationship is. The worst thing you can possibly do is take your significant other for granted.
Life is entirely too short to lose sight of all the positive things we have. If you simply remember that no relationship is going to be perfect and learn to accept that, you'll be a lot happier. We may not always have the "fairytale ending" like we've always wished for, but we can still find our special prince charming.
I agree with all of this. no relationship is perfect but what makes it perfect is realizing what you have and being happy with what you have instead of looking for something else. There's a reason for everything, especially relationships.
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